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Gender Issues

Music, identity, and pride

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11-year old me was watching MTV and Adam Lambert’s Whataya Want From Me came on.  I liked the sound; before I knew it, I loved the song.

I’ve been listening to it for the last decade & the track has meant so much to me in the process of figuring myself out. The icon Lambert is, both as a personality & as an openly gay musician has helped me understand myself.

A few months ago, I was browsing through Spotify & discovered another song; this one, titled Fuimos Amor (“We Were Love”), is by Colombian singer Esteman, from his album Amor Libre (“Free Love”). Since I first heard it some six months ago, it’s been a constant on my drive playlist. Like Lambert’s track, I love everything about Fuimos Amor: lyrics, video & aesthetics.

This June, I was in Vienna on summer break & later, in New York City for a university program. In Vienna, our bus passed by buildings celebrating pride.

A building in Vienna with the pride flag (June 2019).

In New York, I witnessed the Pride parade & I danced as the procession did. I saw the Camp exhibit at The Metropolitan Museum of Art. Walking around the city, I noticed graffiti & street art that celebrated pride. I tapped my feet & swayed as performers going home after the parade sang & danced in the subway.

“I Choose Love”: street art in New York City (June 2019).

These experiences have been monumental in navigating my identity. I can say now, that I am bi & not be afraid or disgusted by it.

Gender Issues

Transgender models, fashion & society

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In the not-too distant past, a model could lose their job, solely for being transgender. Indeed, both Tracey Norman and Caroline Cossey saw their careers come to a halt in the 1980s after tabloid stories disclosed their trans identities.

Today, things are different.

In August, Chanel tied up with Teddy Quinlivan, who became the first openly transgender woman to work with the fashion giant.

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The same month, Victoria’s Secret partnered with Valentina Sampaio, with the Brazil-born model earning the same honor as Quinlivan, albeit for VS Pink.

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According to Elspeth H. Brown, Associate Professor of History at the University of Toronto, Bruce Jenner coming out as Caitlyn Jenner in 2015 was a factor in changing people’s views on trans individuals. Further, actress Laverne Cox, who plays Sophie in Orange is the New Black, has also had a positive impact through her advocacy of LGBTQ+ issues.

However, fashion endorsements, positive representations and advocacy of trans people can only go so far. Statistics show that in 2018, at least 26 trans individuals were killed due to fatal violence, with a majority being black transgender women. For 2019, that number currently stands at 19. This is the major issue trans people are faced with, besides the mistreatment and abuse they experience regularly.

If we can accept the trans community in advertisements and fashion campaigns, then it is only right to accept them as individuals and grant them the freedoms and dignity as listed by the United Nations Bill of Rights. It’s about time we did.

Gender Issues

Sam Smith, Gender & media representations of LGBTQ+ people

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Over the weekend, American singer Sam Smith came out as non-binary, announcing their decision in an Instagram post.

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According to Associated Press Guidelines, news outlets should honor individuals’ choices and use appropriate pronouns as required.

However, in their initial filing of the story, AP failed to follow their own guidelines and used he/him pronouns, drawing criticism from Smith’s fans, as well as several users on Twitter and other social media.

In this op-ed, journalist Ashley Dye expresses the symbolic meaning behind AP’s reporting error, calling their actions transphobic.

AP’s error in covering Smith is troubling, because it portrays LGBTQ+ voices and individuals as invalid.

Being a wire service, the Associated Press plays a key role in sourcing news and while AP subsequently corrected their report, the same cannot be said for news outlets who ran with the original update, as they may not have noticed the issue, and much less amended it after.

Smith’s case and the discussion around it are part of the wider conversation about LGBTQ+ narratives in media and their recognition as people. Words matter – and it’s time we respect people’s pronouns. Here’s to Sam Smith and to Ashley Dye!